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At today's hospital appointment, we had another ultrasound and 'clinic' with the surgeon. He concluded that all the fuss over low fluids was a "red herring". We have a healthy, hefty (7 lbs 12 oz. estimated today!) baby to deliver whenever the time is right. As Mom Neufeld requested, here is a photo of the baby's room early this evening. Quick question for all you mothers out there: would you recommend starting the baby in a cot (crib) or beginning with a Moses' basket in the parent's room?
posted by Josh and Heather @ 5:20 pm
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Amazing - a gentle dream of a room, brimming with nostalgic simplicity and patient expectation. Or something like that anyway. I really had a great and lengthy comment all ready to post, and the blog shut down for some reason. Oh well. Thank you so much for posting that beautiful picture. It helps me feel the any-moment reality of what is about to happen! And the baby is already bigger than you were when you were born, Josh! Your question makes me smile - you started out in our room on your first night home, but within hours you were back in your own room! You made lots of little noises in your sleep, noises that got a little louder and a little louder - for a very long time - in preparation for eventually waking up. We slept much better with you in your own room. But if the baby is quiet enough, or if you sleep soundly enough, it sure would be special to be near each other during the night. Love from Mom (Grandma)
7 pounds 12 oz - Isabelle's birth weight! A good omen. I'd recommend the Moses basket in your room. It may only last a few nights or weeks, but it's easier to respond right away when they are so close. In the first few weeks you won't be used to waking up so you'll be thankful you don't have to go far to see what's up. And it IS a special time - to be altogether - your little family all in one room. But you'll know when it's time for them to be in their own room, and that's good too. I love peeking in on Isabelle when she is sleeping!! Keeping you in constant prayer - Mel and Ben
Hey Josh and Heather,
The room looks great. So cute! As to your question, I’ll tell you what worked for us. We had both a cradle and a crib, and only one bedroom, so we had no choice as to where Michaela would sleep. We did however have a small portable swing and we ended up putting that right next to our bed. Whenever Michaela would start the stir, even before she started to cry, I would rock the swing. Occasionally she would cry, indicating she was hungry or else she would fall back asleep. Might not work for everybody, but Michaela was sleeping through the night at 6 weeks, and other then a little trouble staying in bed when we moved her into her big girl bed, she’s never had sleeping problems. Hope that helps.
Hi Josh and Heather and Little One,
I'm eagerly awaiting the news! As to your question... At first I thought - do whatever works for you. The baby will sleep so much during the first few days that you'll have plenty of chances to try out both locations :) But after reading the other comments, I thought that it would be fitting to share my experiences... Baby #1 - first night in a bassinet in our room, second night in the bassinet in the hall, third night in his crib! Baby #2 - first night in her crib!
For me personally sleep was so critical so that I could have plenty of energy to give them during the awake hours!
But let me assure you that whatever you do lovingly as parents will be just right for your little one! There is no right or wrong!
Lots of love,
Aunty Meggie
I love snuggling my babies and I loved having both of them by my side all night long. Do what works best for the both of you and for Jamie. For me, I sleep better with the kids near my side. It is a completely personal choice- as is most of parenting. Follow your instincts and throw all the books you have in the trash. (Unless they are any books I recommended.)
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